The World of Remix..

Looking at this picture I realize that what proper remixing can do. It is a world of remix-you just can not escape it, can you?
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Relationship thread... or muscle

Rahiman dhaga prem ka mat toro chatkaye.

Tute se phir na jure, jure gaanth par jaaye.

It means-love is like a thread, never break it

                 broken thread never joins, even if it does a knot emerges.

A well known verse from saint Rahim. I have been a believer in this verse since ever. But.. (I will never understand why I have so many buts) nowadays this belief of mine is subsiding. Or rather a new thought is emerging. What if.. 

What if the relationships are not actually like threads but muscles. They if given a bit of stretch do not break. Rather they get exercise and their strength increases and they are able to bear more beating next time. This is my hypothesis for relationships. They do break as muscles tear but giving them a few jerks is also necessary.

Like, why is it said that distances increases love between people. Also fights are actually proof of affections. These are nothing but exercises. Like I believe-"If something doesn't kill you, then it makes you stronger.-Friedrich Nietzsche". 

If this is true then relations which have faced some hardships are actually stronger than those which were bred on soft beds. But the question is-'how much strain?' How much strain can a relationship bear till it finally breaks down. I do not know. May be that is why putting stress should be done as cautiously as overclocking is done. One should do it slowly with baby steps. Its better to be slow in such matters else the same thing will happen in both the cases-damage.

If this theory of mine is true (I believe it is) then all committed people, its time to give all your relationships a nudge. Improve them by giving them some exercise else they will become loose and boring. How?? I don't know, do something which makes your beloved angry and then ask for an apology. Do something kinky and then if he/she(she is more probable) is shocked or something then try to cover up the situation. Say sorry. It will help in two ways. First, the relationship will improve. Second, he/she will not react with same intensity the next time you say the same thing. In other words you will take your relationship to a higher level.

Just one precautionary note:-'Do not overdo it, else it might break.' A teared muscle may join but a ripped muscle is.. well

without a title..

Khwab kayi dekhen hain maine

Kayi khwab mere toote hain

Kayi hasratein rahi adhoori

Fana huae jo khwab unka gham nahi

Shayad kuchh sapno ki koi manzil nahi

Par haqeekat bhi kaun haseen hui

Jo tamannaen hui poori

Vo bhi kahan meri hui

Jinko pala maine deke apna lahu

Vo hasratein bhi sauteli bani

Mere khwab jo poore huae

Unhone dasa hai mujhe zyada

Itna ki ab sapne dekhne ki himmat nahi

Kabhi dua bhi kar baethta hun khuda se

Mere khwabon ko haqeekat na bakshe

Fir magar aata hai khayal

Agar hoti khuda ki itni azmat

To kyon vo hame bakhshta

Jo galti hui hai us se

Kyon na pehle use badalta

Shayad vo ye khwab nahi dekhta

Daraya hai ek puri khwahish ne itna

Aur khwab dekhne ki

Ab khuda mein takat nahi… 

Why me??

Last night I screwed up big time.Do not ask me what happened. Why? Because I will not tell you, that's why ;). But the only thing that came to  my mind was "Why me??" Why have the great power of making a mess of perfection given to me by the almighty( remember I am not atheist). Give me heaven for a day and you will find hell the next day.

Waaaiiit a bit. Isn't this the same thing a guy named Adam is famous for. If I remember correctly this guy was given a perfect world and he screw it up big time and...    and we are his successors, aren't we. Sooo that's why i did it. Its in my blood, isn't it? That's why I hate perfection. I just can not be perfectly happy because.. c'mon its perfection guys and our nature can not tolerate this. This completely explains our curiosity for any and everything. This explains why we have different religions and factions. Why are we of different colors (read race) ? It helps us. According to theory of evolution we evolved this way so that we can fight and live 'sadly ever after'. 

Finally I got the answer for my great mishaps (not only this one but I always do this) and seeing myself not alone I feel calm. Though I would really hope that in course of evolution this habit of ours subside. For how long will we make hell out of the happiness which we get. 

kudos....  

Ek khwahish

Yun bhi kabhi mera saamna zamaane se ho

Jeet ho meri, khuda bhi chaahe unmein se ho.

Aana hai waqt ek nayi shuruvat ka magar

Ho aagaaz agar to ek khatme se ho.

Chaand ke daag jo nazar aate hain hamein

Shayad hamara saamna ek aayine se ho.

Ladte hain apno se apne haq ke liye

Kaash kabhi saamna hamara gairon se ho.

Jahaan pahunche hain hum ab is jahaan mein

Dekho ab kya fark maseeh ke kehne se ho..

Mil jaaye

Sawaal ab dil mein kuchh zyada hi hain

Kahin kabhi koi khuda mujhe bhi mil jaaye.

Jannat-o-dozakh ke baare mein bhi kuchh pata chale

kuchh apne dil ki jaankari mujhe bhi mil jaaye.

Yun to chehre pe dikhti hai muskaan har waqt

Ek baar dil ko mere kuchh sukoon bhi mil jaaye.

Dil mein mere kayii raaz hain batane wale

Kaash koi ek bharosemand bashar bhi mil jaaye..